[9:07 am, 18/06/2022]
Ram Krishnaswamy: Titu how good are you with secrets ? Can you keep them for ever?
[9:08 am, 18/06/2022] 💃❤🥨 TITU: Yes I can.
[9:35 am, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: I need to vent my frustrations living with your sister. She is not a bad person for had she been I'd have divorced her in 1995. Anand asks me all the time why we are still married. She can be sweet as honey one minute and get her claws out the next. Sort of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde character.
Every night she gets sloshed with red wine, enjoys uber food and tv and comes and crashes in bed with me along with her dog on the bed a yappy dog and takes over 3/4 of the bed and quilt and I just cannot sleep.
By 6.30am her dog needs to go out and then mithu goes and sleeps upstairs with her Lilo. There was a time after coming home from hospital she was making me so angry I was afraid I might harm her physically like stab her. Thank God I did not as I could be in jail Today…
[9:50 am, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: As you are aware we have a huge house. What use the huge home if no one is welcome especially people I like. Take this example. Sheela is divorced and is in a relationship with Tony a multitalented art director. Sheela divorce settlement with Sree has not come through and had no place to stay.
Commonsense told me if Tony and Sheel moved in with us then we would have to adults to drive us around and Tony is an Exceptionally good cook plus I needed male company badly.
No your sister put her foot down and said no way and she even refused Sheel entry to the house when she came to see her only brother with some dishes he liked. I curse my own Karma.
Mithu and I lived separate lives after I found out she was attending Alcoholics Anonymous for a long time
[9:53 am, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: You have lived with your in-laws entire married life
[10:01 am, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: Now you know why I chose the caption sleeping with the Enemy as that's how it has felt since she got a Posh Job with DuPont travelling business Class all over the world and her head turned 180 degrees she cut her hair that I loved and Came home and stood in front of me looking like a Filipino maid, took off her Bindi making her look like a widow and the thali disappeared too. in othere words her husband was dead. This probably jinxed my Brain stem stroke
[10:39 am, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: Now the time when my wife mithu takes the original avatar of Mrs Arundhuti krishnaswamy is after she has had her second sleep upstairs with lilo and comes down as a goody shoe wife with a cup of morning tea for her husband and makes some brunch etc etc. 8.30am to 2.00 pm is hubby time after which she goes upstairs again with lilo for her afternoon snooze
[10:44 am, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: Now Titu there is no way you can remember the lot and they will disappear from whats app for ever. You need to copy and paste into document and save it safe
[12:33 pm, 18/06/2022] 💃❤🥨 TITU: Will respond to you later as I am going for Nandan's son Vidars birthday party now.
[2:47 pm, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: Don't worry I needed to get it all of my chest. No need to respond at all. Her memory loss came about because of her obsession to control her diabetes perfectly. She was anti carbs and pro proteins and had hundreds of massive hypos and hypos killed brain cells. When met she said to me I am damaged goods as I have Type 1 diabetes and no one will marry me and asked me to marry her and I did.
Poor thing she tortures herself with her ridiculously high yet meaningless standards. I believe in doing everything in moderation
[7:59 pm, 18/06/2022] 💃❤🥨 TITU: Ram , just touching on your messages this morning.
I personally dont like sharing the bed with pets. I know many people who do. Have told Mithu to make the dog sleep on its own bed. She says it is upstairs. Can it be brought down?
Dont worry about her going to a mental asylum. She will not. My former boss and her husband who are in their 90s live in Perth. They cant take care of themselves. They sold the big house they had and went into assisted living. I think you have good facilities for that in Oz. So she might have to look into that in future. No mental asylum, I assure you. Because her mental facilities are fine. Only blows hot n cold sometimes. But we all are guilty of that aren't we?
Just want to stress that she cares for you a lot. You know her nat…
[8:49 pm, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: You Can say what you want as you are not in my shoes. It is 8.46pm and she is sloshed and walks into my study me trying to get back to normal looking for my passport and and citizenship certificate and opening my bag and throwing things around. This makes me want to get back into bed to avoid these nasty confrontation with a whacko
[8:53 pm, 18/06/2022] 💃❤🥨 TITU: I will talk to her on her wine drinking.
[8:54 pm, 18/06/2022] 💃❤🥨 TITU: Must try to stop her getting sloshed.
[8:57 pm, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: it is not as if anand and I have not tried . dont waste your time and energy
[9:24 pm, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: She just came and chucked the Biggest tantrum and I could hear pots and pans flying in the kitchen and she has stormed off upstairs to sleep with Lilo.
I see Only one solution is Get Divorced and go our ways. I dot want to waste the remainder of my life with an alcoholic and a fruitcake
[9:31 pm, 18/06/2022] 💃❤🥨 TITU: Calm down Ram. Will try to find out whats bothering her.
[9:47 pm, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: She never loved herself. Dont be shocked to hear about our Divorce. I jHave a right to my LIfe of what is left of it. I dont care what she wants to do with her life
[9:48 pm, 18/06/2022] Ram Krishnaswamy: Remember every time you talk to her she knows I have been talking to you. she is not dumb
