SSR was born in 1986 exactly 40 years after I was born in 1946. SSRs father was a Central Govt Servant, so was my Father in Andaman Islands.
SSR was the only son and the youngest with four older sisters. I too have six sisters three older and three younger.
SSR was very good at studies at School and even won the Physics Olympiad. I too was very good at studies and topped my class from 6th std to 9th std with no challengers. I loved maths and Physics too buit did not win any olympiads but built my firs crystal radio in 6th std and built a model submarine using popular mechanics that was tested in a pool and won me a prize. I had a box full of silver medals and merit cards and well done cards which was preserved by my mother.
My Mother was everything to me so was for SSR. after he lost his mother he lost his way in life.
Sushant's father was from what I have read strict and a bit of a terror and wanted SSR to be an Engineer. In my case it was a Bit different. My father was extremely strict too and ˆwas scared of him as he would pull his belt out of he got angry. Never hit me as My mother always shielded me. My father wanted a family of doctors. Three of my sister became doctors but my dream was to be an electronics engineer. Even though I passed the entrance exam I did not qualify for electronics or electrical engg as all seats had been filled up by better rank holders. IIT Madras Director who had worked at Durgapur University offered me a full scholarship to study electronics at Durgapur University and I was happy and was asked to consult my parents who were outside the interview hall. I come out and am excited to tell me Dad I have been offered a Full scholarship including boarding and lodging and he says "Building Engineering" He wanted me to build his dream house and the last thing I wanted was to study Civil Engineering. The Interview panel could not believe my decision to choose Civil Engineering as per my Dads instruction
SSR some how managed to quit engineering in the final semester and take up dancing and acting. Think this happened after his mother died and he did not care any more. I on the other hand completed my B Tech in Civil, Engineering and did my masters specialising in Acoustics that was more physics and have had a career as an Industrial Noise Control in Australia. SSR's career brought him from Bihar to Delhi for engg education and to Mumbai for acting.
Soon after SSR settled and lived with Ankita Lokhande and I came to sydney and within six months met Arundhuti Gupta aka Mithu also SSR's sisters name.
For virtually three long years my mother and sisters knew very little about my life in sydney what I was studying what kind of odd jobs I did and knew nothing about Mithu at all.. I am sure Same thing happened to SSRs Family.
Sons do not tell mothers and sisters everything that is going on in their lives in a new country.
Every friday and saturday there were some party or the other hosted by Syd Uni student friends and yes we all drank, smoked and joints ( meaning Gunja) were passed around at every party. You took a deep puff and passed it on. Did not do anything for me so I preferred my Benson and hedges.
Basically SSR and I were enjoying our freedom from Family.
This is where the similarity ends.
I married the love of my life even though my mother took three longs years to say yes. Her argument was you are the only son and should marry a telugu girl from our community and she said we know nothing about the Guptas in Singapore plus they seem to be very well off compared to us in I dia and that made her apprehensive.
As for SSR his main anchor his mother died and he cut himself off from his father and did not even talk to him for five long years before his death.
I was not filthy rich but made necessary contributions for younger sisters weddings and weddings of nieces and nephews.
As for SSR Until Rhea came into his life his favourite sister Priyanka was in charge of appointing his staff members as well as managing SSRs finances.
Even though we were not married we had no secrets and Mithus surely used her money and my money and credit cards etc. So I do not see the big deal about Rhea using SSRs Credit cards to pay bills as he was fully aware of it.
Once a man is married sisters have no say in how a couple manage their lives what they spend and why they spend etc etc. For the family to accuse Rhea of this and that, I am sure every mother in law and sisters in laws will accuse the brothers wives.
Yes Mithu fixes me a scotch at 6.00pm every night and has become a tradition, she has bought scotch and wine and cigarettes for me even though she was a tee-totaller for first 20 years of my life.
I agree SSRs family going after Rhea is nothing but a witch hunt. I am sure SSR had a will which would have excluded his father and may be even all his sisters as he thought they were all after his money.
SSRs life Changed totally the day Ankita left him in 2016. He then became a rudderess boat, went on a spending spree bought his Lomborgini and his Rs 55 lakh Telescope and his penthouse. He partied like there was no tomorrow and like it or not he was a ladies man...
So I am able to relate to SSRs life and am trying to get into his shoes to shee what happened and why he died..
My Gut feel is that someone was blackmailing him and he was afraid. He had become a superstar over night only because Doni himself chose SSR to act as Dhoni.
The question is who was not happy with SSRs success and associated wealth and fame ?
Had he tread on any toes or many toes ? Why did SSR refuse to act in mahesh hats Sadak 2 ? which has become a huge flop now ?
Why did SSR who had no work in 2020 decline an offer of Rs 6 Crores to act in a movie directed by and why did he demand Rs 12 cores? Does not make sense
Basically some black mailer was telling him he was not going to act again and to pack up and go organic farming.
As a warning the Black mailers tossed his secretary over the balcony from 14th Floor. The Minute that happened SSR realised OMG the bastards are going to come after me. He wanted to call a Press meeting but his blackmailers got to him before that and finished him off.
Baddies when they want to hurt a man and make his obey, hurt him where it hurts most which is to hurt people he loves or is close to.
SSR probably thought the killers would hurt Rhea ad asked her to leave him and go to her parents. The Black mailers said OH yeah we will show you wat we are capable off and tossed Disha over the balcony. Poor Disha was an innocent victim.
I also feel all SSRs Staff members are being investigated and victimised by Police dn CBI investigators. We have to understand this is India and servants and employees don't ask questions Do what the Boss says. If he says get me Drugs they do whatever they are capable of. Even Ankita left SSR and she should be the one drilled to find out why she dumped him. I don't think she felt insecure.,She just could not handle a Changed SSR. He was getting drunk and misbehaving at parties.
''Plus if he was BiPolar he would have had extreme highs and lows driving his partner crazy. Ankita knows every thing and if she really loved SSR she would tell the truth and not sit back and watch Rhea being treated as main suspect. The Poor girl left him on 8th June and was no where near SSR until 14th June when he was found dead.
